LIFE: What happy couples know…?
Couples from across globe share four basic rules of a happy marriage. And guess what? Love and understanding aren’t top criteria on that list!
ENHANCE THE ROMANCE
Do you laugh at couples who have silly, daily ritual of romance? Believe it or not maintain small rituals can drastically enhance, sustain build more marriage. From having breakfast together every morning to keep aside time to watch a movie every week, each of the couple interviewed maintained at least one practice for years.
What couples refer to as ritual is in the fact spontaneous patterns that have formed over the years. These rituals or pattern form because of similar interests and understanding that partners hold, and these rituals then move on to form unique sense of dyad creating an identity of togetherness. Even when couples hit a rough patch, this pattern can serve as a defence and continue to remind the patterns about the good times that they’ve shared.
TOO MUCH EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCE IS BAD
Too much togetherness can be claustrophobic for both partners. By venturing out they can share experiences each other and build an ongoing line of communication. It will also give them some personal space. A hobby is very good way to unwind the stress of daily living and return rejuvenated to the relationship. It also keeps heart chakra in balance, which is responsible for good relationship. By maintaining separate identities couples aren’t emotionally dependence on another fact that well-being which helps their thrive.
DIVORCES IS’NT AN OPTION
Most of the couples fact had decided at the start of their marriage that they would subtract divorce from the equation, no matter what take example of Hollywood star couple Will Smithland and Jada Pinkett. Despite the temptation and pressure of celebrity life. They have marriage 17 years and recently confessed that one of the reasons their marriage has survived because they didn’t have plan B.
What we found is divorce just can’t options. It’s really that simple. So a huge part of success for Jada and we are that we just removed the others options. “Smith in an interviewed
MARRIAGE BEFORE KIDS
Your children get the first introduction to what a relationship is from watching you and your spouse together. Focusing on your relationship with your partner,especially after you had kids is very important.
When one becomes a parent, it becomes even more important to remember why you and your spouse came first place -- the thing you like about each together, the thing you like to do together ---as there are things that keep you going even when you are in the stressed situation. children with happy, contents have the best chance of growing up to be happy, fulfilled adults"Putting your marriage first doesn't mean neglecting your kids --- it means investing in the fundamental glue that holds your family together.
